Mark Hunter was recently crowned the 2009 World Champion of Public Speaking in Connecticut. There’s a great writeup of the contests by Angie. You can also listen to Mark Hunter on ABC Radio. Finally you can watch him as part of Darren LaCroix’s interview with the finalists this year.
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This post was written by john on August 25, 2009
There is a difference between judgement and feedback. Judgement is what you said was wrong while feedback is “this is how. I felt about your speech.” This enables people to find out which area they can improve.
-Loghandran Krishnasamy, First Runner Up, WCPS 2008, taken from this article.
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This post was written by john on November 29, 2008
How do you know if people truly care about you? Seriously? Is it when they’re nice to you? How do you feel when someone says, “You’ve got something in your teeth.” Do you want to know?
As you read this, I’m in Las Vegas sharing the stage with one of my mentors – Vinnie Favorito – teaching our Humor Boot Camp. Someone asked me earlier week what Vinnie is like as a teacher (they had seen him perform). He was brutal and honest… which I now know meant that he cared about me. He cared about my growth. He took the “true” responsibility of a teacher.
I remember early on… as I received feedback, I was completely open to it because I didn’t know anything about comedy. As I grew, got some confidence, and had a few successes, I actually started taking offense when I was given feedback. I was much less open to the idea. I wanted the pat on the back, but I still needed the growth. I had no idea how much I still needed to learn.
At our last coaching camp, one of the attendees told me they’d heard I was “mean” when giving feedback. Really? As first I got defensive. Then it dawned on me that I’m no different. Receiving feedback is different from each individual. Different people will take the same exact feedback in a different way. What is the “purpose” of the feedback? To show that you’re better? Or to help grow?
Some presenters are surrounded by people who can’t give them a higher level of feedback. They’re the “king” of their club, and they may be content with that. This is probably pretty good for their self-esteem, but it’s not good for their growth. What kind of people are you surrounded by? Are they helping you grow?
When we created the new “Own The Stage” 10-DVD set, we brought in a camera crew to film both days of our Coaching boot camp, and we were focused on capturing a truly world class level of feedback. I don’t know of any other program like this on the market. It’s a very high level of feedback, delivered with brutal honesty for the purpose of caring. We always give our boot campers a “disclaimer,” so they’ll know to expect directness and honesty from us. But we make sure they understand that it’s not to be “mean” …it’s because we care and we want them to grow.
I remember how honest Vinnie was with me… how much it impacted what I did, and how I improved as a result. He was brutal and he was honest, but now I realize just how much he cared. How do you look at feedback from people who have more expertise than you?
No mentor ever “niced” me to the next level.
You?
How do you respond to feedback? Will you become defensive and hurt, or will you look for your growth?
Stage time, Stage time, Stage time,
Darren LaCroix
2001 World Champion of Public Speaking.
Used with permission.
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This post was written by john on November 7, 2008
LaShunda Rundles, the 2008 World Champion of Public Speaking, who I wrote about here and here, is currently in the ICU battling Lupus. Angie Flinn Key has posted more info on her blog.
Take some time to learn about the effects of Lupus and keep LaShunda in your thoughts.
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This post was written by john on November 4, 2008
I recently posted evaluation advice from recently crowned World Champion of Public Speaking, LaShunda Rundles. Her poignant advice is to listen to your heart.
In an interview for Six Minutes a few days ago, LaShunda said the following:
I believe that being able to expose yourself to a variety of settings for feedback assures the universal appeal of your message. Assemble a group of honest coaches who will tell you without the sugar coating what works. Don’t be so resolute that you cannot accept honest and reasonable criticisms.
This is excellent advice. Seek out coaches. Open your mind to accept honest feedback.
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This post was written by john on September 14, 2008
Do you think a World Champion of Public Speaking knows a thing or two about effective evaluations? I do. Which is why I was interested in the advice LaShunda Rundles, the newly crowned 2008 World Champion, gave on the August World Champions’ EDGE conference call.
LaShunda talked about how we, as evaluators, like to give feedback. We just love to add value. Nothing pleases us more than providing feedback to a speaker that will improve them or their speech.
Speakers, and most especially speech contestants, need to be selective of which advice to take. LaShunda cautions that taking in too much feedback can impact your message:
When you take too much information from folks and you are trying to please someone from every direction, you are going to jeapardize the authenticity of your speech.
LaShunda has advice for speakers who receive a lot of feedback:
You need to listen to your heart, and filter those things out.
As an evaluator, we need to be careful with the feedback we give. Ask yourself the following questions:
When evaluating a speech, we need to consider what the recipient needs. What we need is not important. Focus on the speaker. Give them a gift.
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This post was written by john on August 28, 2008
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