Question 9: How do you develop good listening skills?
By keeping your mouth closed!
There are a number of ways you can develop listening skills related to speech evaluations. The first and foremost way is to join Toastmasters and start doing speech evaluations. Let’s assume though that you are already a member of Toastmasters. How can you further develop your evaluation skills?
The best way is to do speech evaluations – when you are not that speakers evaluator. Why pass up opportunities to evaluate? You actually get more feedback this way. If you have no role, then you need to be evaluating all of the speakers. Then, once you have done that, evaluate each of the assigned evaluators. Finally, evaluate the general evaluator too! Don’t just sit there twiddling your thumbs!!! For a 3-speaker meeting that is 7 extra roles you just took care of. For 6 of these roles you can compare what you wrote against what the assigned evaluator said.
If you do have a role, then I suggest the same thing. Doing two roles such as grammarian and evaluator will seem hard to begin with, but as you do it more, you will develop your listening muscles to the point where you can do it with ease. Your listening skills improve and as a result, your evaluation skills improve too.
You can also evaluate other speeches. There are plenty on YouTube. There are also many available from Toastmasters on DVD. Finally, you can evaluate speeches on TV – both formal speeches and also from regular TV shows.
Take all the opportunities available to you to really develop one of the best skills available to you.
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